I know that brides often have pre-wedding jitters.  I was unaware that this phenomena affected the grooms as well.  My friend Dustin was getting married and he was having anxiety attacks over the strangest things.   He is a PHP developer and he is very concerned that no one, including his bride will know exactly what it is he does for a living.  I didn’t realize there was going to a quiz or maybe a survey, but I decided to humor him for a moment or two and have him explain it to me. Essentially he writes the language that creates web pages.  That didn’t seem very difficult to say, but then he added details that involved a lot of language that, quite frankly made my head hurt to listen to. Most of it was initials. I told him to just focus on what it is, what he does and how this will affect his marriage as a whole.